I have come around to the view recently, that I need to rein in my spending - a lot.
I am lucky to have a good job which is well paid. But I am 34 with nothing at all (financially speaking) to show for it - although I would argue that the money I have spent on travel and pursuing hobbies shows on the inside!
But really, it is ridiculous to work as hard as I do during the week and yet to have no financial security. What's the point?
I suppose it depends on what you want in life.
So, I asked myself the question - what do I want? What is success for me?
My gut spoke. It said:
Wilderness - I want to live in the countryside, so that I am surrounded by nature. Preferably in a solid little house with character.
Security: I want to make somewhere my home, and I want to be financially secure enough not to be worrying about having to move if I don't want to.
Space: I want to be able to live the lifestyle that is important to me - growing my own food and with a greenhouse of my own so that I can propagate my own plants. Not self-sufficient, but...ish.
This one would do fine!
...with one of these please.
In fact, my own greenhouse has always been high up on my list of priorities! Something in my soul needs this connection to the natural world and I really feel the lack of it, living without a garden (to speak of). It isn't very ambitious I know - I wish my life's dream was more altruistic, grand and honourable than my own greenhouse, but it is just the person I am.
At the moment, with no real assets, this isn't ever going to happen. I will be forever renting at this rate, which means I am very unlikely to ever have a garden and greenhouse that is truly mine. Also, in the last six months I have managed to run up debts of £2,500 on credit cards (stupid! why!?) which need paying off.
So from now on, I will be focussing on ways to save money and appreciate a slower pace of life. Autumn is a good time for this, I think. Everyone slows down a bit, there are less social occasions (Christmas excepted of course) and it is OK to just rest, spend nights in front of the fire or the new season's TV and take things easy. There is so much beauty all around to enjoy for free. Also, I have plenty of university work to keep me occupied - every second of my spare time if I let it!
So without further ado, I have done a few frugal things this weekend:
We kicked off the weekend with homemade
pizza, instead of a takeaway. This came to about £1.50 each. Bargain!
It's all about the hairy fish! I love anchovies on my pizza.
I sold some unwanted clothes on ebay, including a beautiful Ted Baker dress I bought for a wedding earlier this year (credit cards!) and am unlikely ever to wear again. I always find it is amazing, ebay - you don't think your used clothes are worth anything, but there is always someone, somewhere who wants them. I raised over £100!
With this, I paid £100 off pesky Credit Card number 1. About £250 left on that one now. I have plans to sell my old iphone as well, to chip away a little more of the outstanding balance. Very satisfying paying such a good chunk off!
Normally by this point of the month, I have run out of cash and resort to the demon credit cards for the last week. Not this time! We get paid on Thursday, and I am
determined not to spend a penny until then. So, I took stock of the fridge and have 'cooked ahead' for the week.
I made some seasonal Pumpkin and Apple Breakfast Muffins by adapting
this recipe - I substituted sugar for honey and half stewed apple to the pumpkin, to use up what we had. They don't rise like proper muffins, as they have so much moisture. But they are filling and taste amazing!
And I have a pot of Leek and Stilton soup bubbling away on the Stanley to take for lunches. I try and avoid bread during the week, so we will probably have this with some oatcakes. I am also making a fish pie using some white fish we have had languishing in the freezer for weeks.
I am pleased to say, this weekend I haven't spent a single penny! And how relaxing it has been. Last night was spent in front of the fire, with my little dog and LB, knitting to my hearts' content.
And yesterday, while the rain poured
all day long I got down to some serious studying. I feel so much calmer when I know I am up to date. As it has gotten so dark, so early now that the clocks have gone back, I am happy to study into the night with a nice hot coffee.
So, it doesn't make for a very interesting blog, but it has been a very relaxing, happy and frugal weekend!
I hope yours was too.